If you have recently found yourself interested in the BDSM lifestyle, you may be learning many new, exciting, strange, and unusual things about the BDSM world as well as about yourself. There is absolutely nothing wrong when you feel strange about something you learn that relates directly to the BDSM lifestyle. Even those of us who have been in the BDSM lifestyle still chance upon things that we think are bizarre, but are normal to other people in the lifestyle. BDSM is vast, unique, and creative and you can indeed find something for everyone when you become a part of it. One thing you may find strange but interesting is the fact that many people in the BDSM lifestyle have pets. However, while some of them do have common pets of a different species such as dogs and cats, some people have other pets that may seem a lot more like you than you think.
Be a Responsible Owner
If you are a new Dom and have successfully avoided getting caught up in one of those internet dating scams, you may be searching for a way to own your very own human pet. Human pets are fun and exciting creatures, but they are not right for everyone. Deciding to own a human pet takes a lot of effort and responsibility that a new Dom may not be able to handle. However, if you feel that you are responsible enough for a human pet, there are a few things that you will need to consider before you welcome a new human pet into your home.
Human pets are exactly what they sound like, pets who are humans. When you are looking on websites such as WealthyBDSMDating.com, you may notice that many of the members there who identify as subs or slaves are looking for owners. These members may also mention their interest in becoming a pet for the right Dom. Here, you can check the rating and read WealthyBDSMDating Review: Legit Or Not? Read And Find Out, whether it is a scam or not.
If you contact one of these members, do not assume that she will want to be your pet right away. Pet or not, she is still a human and will require that she get to know you before welcoming you into her home or feeling comfortable enough to live in yours. After you have taken considerable time to get to know your sub and eventual human pet and the two of you have agreed that the two of you should live together, you have to immediately begin making the proper arrangements for you and your new pet.
Like a pet of a different species, your human pet will need to be fed, bathed, played with, exercised, and to receive an adequate amount of sleep for her to be healthy and happy. When you take on a human pet, you cannot expect her to know everything to do right away. Remember, she is a pet and you must train her to act the way you want her to act. Set up protocol with your pet and let her know what she must wear (or not wear) in your presence. Decide if you will allow your pet to sleep on the same bed with you or if she has to sleep on her own bed on the floor. If your pet is disobedient, will you have a cage for her to go inside, or if she is good, will you have prepared special treats for her to eat? These are the types of questions you should begin asking yourself before welcoming a human pet into your home. Make sure that you give your human pet plenty of exercise and play so she does not become restless and disobedient.
Being a Well-Behaved Pet
Some internet dating scams will not even mention human pets on their websites. These websites look down on these types of behaviors, which we think is pretty ridiculous. However, different websites such as WealthyBDSMDating.com do not limit what type of fetishes or kinks a user can have if he or she chooses to sign up for an account. If you sign up for a legit website that welcomes whatever BDSM kink or fetish you may have, make sure you include in your profile that you are a human pet looking for an owner.
When you decide to take on the role as human pet, you are going to have to make sure you are well behaved so that someone will want to adopt you. Dommes and Masters do not want a human pet that is too difficult to train or who is too disobedient. However, some Dommes and Masters will not want a pet who is fully trained as it will be boring to them. Show your potential owner that while you are well behaved, you can also occasionally be handful. This will make sure that your new owner will also have something to look forward to.
One way to show a potential owner how good of a pet you are is to post a video of yourself. You can do this by asking someone that you have played with in the past to come over and give you orders while recording how well you follow them. This will more than likely intrigue interested potential owners.
Once you become someone’s pet, you must make sure that you do what it takes to please your new owner. While you may have some issues learning a few things, do not completely reject your ability to use common sense. If your owner wants you at home waiting for her on your hands and knees when she arises, but you have find out that there has been an accident and one of your family members is in the hospital, go see your family member. However, be considerate and leave a message to your owner to let her know the situation. You should never up and leave your owner without telling her where you are going and what the situation is.
You also want to make sure that your needs are being met. If you are hungry, bored, or restless, figure out ways to let your owner know. Sometimes your owner will be okay with your speaking, but other times you may have to be a little more creative.
As you go about either searching for a pet or searching for an owner, make sure to avoid internet dating scams at all costs. Some of these websites are not safe and contain a large number of predators who are out for your information or to take advantage of you.
If at any time you are with your pet or owner and you begin to feel that you are in an unsafe situation, you need to remove yourself from immediately. Some owners and pets may seem like they are harmless for the first few weeks or months and then you discover that they can be violent and vicious and have been waiting for the right moment to strike. Always exercise caution and let someone know about your whereabouts. If you have no family in the area or do not want them knowing about your lifestyle, let some members of the BDSM world that you are familiar with know the situation. Always trust your instinct when you decide to adopt a human pet or when you decide to become one. Remember, even stray animals know about survival for the fittest.